I am honored to have my husband contribute to today's blog. The feelings from infertility, fertility issues, or difficulty expanding your family is not isolated to just the female. I remember after our initial appointment, I prayed to God, "If there is an issue, please let it be with me because I can handle this and I can go through all of the procedures to "fix" what is wrong." I was relieved when all of his tests came back and he was not the source of our fertility issues. Now I needed him to be strong for me and help me work pass the "diagnosis" from doctors as well as to pray like never before. I didn't realize that my husband was also secretly going through and having just as many low moments as I was.
How do you console a crying wife when you both are dealing with the same issue? We are both ever grateful for those who were intercessors and praying for us during this time.
THOSE WHO INTERCEDE FOR OTHERS,SHOULD MAKE CERTAIN SOMEONE ISINTERCEDING FOR THEM.Aaron and Hur held his hands up-one on one side, one on the other.ExodusThank you. Those two words have such a greater meaning in my life these days. Honestly, if I had fainted, I would never believe that God could be so extraordinarily good to my wife and me. Yes we pray; yes we believe; yet and still, we always felt so unworthy. For some time my wife, Deronda, has been blogging about our experiences with conceiving a child of our own on her site, TheOtherSideoftheBlessin g. Each week, she shares a little bit more about our journey and how God blessed us despite our fertility doctors giving us a 5% chance at conception. Even after three failed fertility treatments, we still trusted God. Today, we are a little over 26 weeks (Praise the Lord) and we are excited to meet our daughter, Braylen Jael. But it's been a journey.In my season of thanks, I am so very thankful for the relationships we have that have been strengthened by this journey God has designed for our lives. So many have sown seeds of thankfulness, prayer, and strength as we went through that which we have endured. I recall, two friends in particular, who acted as living testimonies of God's promises. I so vividly remember one evening Deronda and I, along with our friends, had a date night where we went to the movies to see "War Room" and have dinner. While in the center of the restaurant the topic of child birth came up. Our friends reminded us to continue to speak the name of our child in the atmosphere. They agreed with us in prayer that God will perform in this situation. As we spoke, the tears welled in my eyes because I knew that this last procedure had failed. As we talked, my heart ached and I felt so overwhelmed by the circumstances surrounding our conception, or lack thereof. I felt lifeless, as if I was a failure, my soul had literally collapsed to the ground. The irony of it all is in my collapsing, I had this strong sense that these two friends of ours were holding me up. They were literally not allowing me to hit the floor.As I fell into their arms (in a spiritual sense) I was quickly reminded that those who intercede for others, better make sure there is someone interceding for them. Intercession is spiritual warfare. It is not for the faint or the feeble. In Exodus 17, the reader is exposed to a detailed description of the battle between the Israelites and the Amalekites. According to the text, as long as Moses was lifting up his arms, the Israelites were winning the battle. But every time Moses' arms grew tired and were lowered, the Israelites would begin to fail. Aaron and Hur saw what was occurring and immediately when alongside Moses and lifted his arms until the battle was won.Today, I simply want to thank God that our friends were there to lift up our arms. If they had allowed us to fail, we would not be celebrating the very gift of God growing in the womb of my wife. It's an absolute wonder what the Lord can do! I challenge you today, to discover the intercessors in your life. Who are the people that will hold you up and hold you together until the battle is won. I promise you, no matter how strong you are, there are things in this life that you are not designed to go through alone. Be encouraged, someone is praying for you even right now.